Heartbroken

I realize that an attractive girl is more likely to be heartbroken-ed than a less attractive one. Want to know why? 

An attractive girl will certainly get lots of attention because guys will come to her like bees. The guys can range from nice guy, bad boy, smart guy, nerd, jerk and many more. Surely one of those guys would be able to woo the girl and start a relationship and I'm quite sure most of the relationship won't last. Why would I say that? Because their relationship is based on first looks so most probably when they start to know each other they will realize that their personality doesn't click but they will not just break the relationship like that. They will start and try to tolerate each other by that they are putting more time, love and effort into it. They maybe able to hold the relationship but one day this tolerating relation will snap and so will the relationship. Yes, both party will probably got heart broken but honestly a guy can get back up from a heartbreak easier than a girl because the guy can just find another girl and probably start the cycle again. While the girl will have to be heart broken until another guy come to woo her and also probably start this heartbreaking cycle. A lucky girl maybe only need to be in two or three of this cycle. A tough girl may be able to stand four or five of this cycle. But and not so lucky and not so tough girl will feel like they are in hell.

While a less attractive girl which will certainly get less attention compared with an attractive girl, therefore she will experience less of the heartbreaking relationship cycle. And because guys won't be attracted by her looks, guys will only fall for her after they start to know each other. By that relationship will be more stable and less likely to lead to a breakup. 

All this seems to tell me that being attractive may bring a girl lots of attraction but with that it also bring her suffering. So to all girl who have lots of wooer, think twice before accepting any of them.

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