Many of us doesn't really understand what is tolerating and what is accepting. Some will see both as the same thing but the problem is tolerating and accepting is two things is very far a part.
To tolerate something, one will just ignore it and try best not to do anything that will conflict it. So to tolerate is like; you have a friend who is a womanizer and you don't feel good on this behavior that he got, and you try your best to not pay to much attention to his act but every time you see him with a new girl you will feel like punching him in the face but at the end you will just do nothing and ended feeling bad inside.
To accept something, one will just take it as it is and understand that there isn't anything one can do to change it. So to accept is like; you have a friend who is a womanizer and although you don't feel good on this behavior that he got, and just let it be and find solution that is not based on him. Example; every time you see him with a new girl just tell the girl everything, don't let him go near to those you care, or simplest just don't hang out with him.
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